“It’s just the way my life turned out, not everyone can…”
You are in control of your own destiny. If you are not satisfied with your current situation either personally or professionally (or both) the good news is that you have some control over your fate. The easy road is to blame others, you justify your lack of success or your current position in life as the fault of someone else. A belief that others control your fate is the wrong approach to creating your destiny.
Acceptance of the idea that you are in control of our own destiny should be the first step you take towards making a difference for your life. You have the ability to make it happen, the ability to make good choices, and the power to celebrate small wins while on your road to success. Many people believe that luck and timing are the key factors, and they play a role, but persistence is most likely the difference between those who achieve success and those who merely dream of it.
Take charge of your destiny – start today!
- DEG
FATE suggests a process that is self initiated and which is beyond one's control.
ReplyDeleteI suggest that FATE is the outcome resulting from a conscious acceptance of whatever external forces DO TO YOU.
Fate and taking control are antithetical. FATE delivers results from your conscious action of not making choices and not directing your actions toward desired outcomes. For the most part, you can be in control of your future. If you don't seize control then do not blame external forces WHICH YOU DECIDED TO SURRENDER. – Unless those forces are a tornado.
Gil Longwell
Meeting WIth Success LLC
I like your thought of "If you don't seize control...", so true. Your use of the word fate, brings to my mind another four letter word - hope.
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